How We Parent Out Of Truth

Moms on Call discusses our responsibility as parents to instruct our children while their hearts are open and parent out of truth, not fear!

Written by Moms on Call 

“Speak to your children as if they are the wisest, kindest, most beautiful and magical humans on earth, for what they believe is what they become.” -Brooke Hampton 

This quote really pulled at my heart. It is a reminder that our children are a reflection of how we communicate to them. As parents, it is our responsibility to instruct our children while their hearts are open and teach them valuable skills. 

So, we parent out of truth and not fear. I mean, who else read that thinking “YES, YES, YES”?! The truth is, we sometimes forget that our little ones are watching every little thing. And if we parent out of truth, then we know that our little ones can do anything they put their minds too, as long as we are behind them with confidence. 

They CAN get to sleep on their own. They CAN play for ten minutes without being held, get to bed on time, nap and, most importantly, obey their parents. 

Toddlers are beautiful, defiant little beings. It is our responsibility to prepare them for life in positive ways, not save them from it. 

When we are making decisions on behalf of our children, ask yourself these three questions:

  • Am I making this decision out of fear or truth?
  • What is the truth in this situation?
  • How can I act on that truth?

When we ask these questions in our daily scenarios, we are putting the confidence in our toddlers that they deserve. So, when our toddler cries hysterically because we set them down to do a simple task, we ask ourselves these questions and parent out of truth accordingly. 

Are we in fear that they will be scarred for life because we set them down for three minutes, safely in their pack in play? Truthfully, we can tolerate a few days of crying as we equip them with the skill to figure it out. Because they are safe and they can do it!

We act on this truth and remind them. “You don’t need Mommy or Daddy to hold you all the time and you will be just fine.” We don’t need to go into detail, it’s the simple truth. And we have confidence in them to complete the task!

Now let’s put it into action!

When we are equipping our children with these skills, consistency is key. If that means loading the laundry every day (let’s be real, we are doing this anyway) and placing them in a safe place while we do it, we are giving them the confidence to play independently. We repeat this task consistently and the confident truth will kick in with them.

Do not lose hope parents! Be the source of confidence, and they will learn to believe it too!

From basic baby care to the trenches of toddlerhood, we are here with you through it all! Our resources guide you through the basics of feeding, sleeping, and safety, including general cheat sheets and tips to get you through each imperfectly perfect day. Moms on Call’s Online Video Courses and books are designed to work together to guide you through every stage from birth to toddlerhood with confidence. For personalized, one-on-one support in implementing the Moms on Call methods, reach out to partner with a Moms on Call Consultant who will be excited and honored to be part of you and your family’s journey.

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